There comes a time when we all need to let go—of toxic relationships, bad habits, lingering regrets, or even just that weird heavy vibe that won’t quit. Banishing and releasing spells are all about clearing out the old to make room for the new. Think of them as your spiritual “delete” button: freeing up space in your mind, heart, and energy for things that actually serve you. Ready to cut those cords? Let’s dive in.


Letting Go of Toxic Relationships

Whether it’s a messy breakup, a one-sided friendship, or even a colleague who’s draining your soul, these spells help you release ties with grace.

The Cord-Cutting Ritual

  • What You Need: A black candle, a piece of string, scissors.
  • Steps: Tie knots in the string to represent the bond or situation you’re releasing. Light the candle and visualize the relationship dissolving as you cut the string. Say:”These knots, these ties, I now release. With this act, I find my peace.”
  • Why It Works: Symbolism is powerful, and physically cutting the string reinforces your intention.
  • Personal Note: I used this spell after a particularly toxic friendship ended. Watching the string fall away felt like lifting a weight off my chest.

The Release Jar

  • What You Need: A small jar, bay leaves, a pen, and salt.
  • Steps: Write the person’s name or the situation on the bay leaves. Place them in the jar, fill it with salt, and seal it. Say:”Bound no more, I set us free. May peace and love return to me.”
  • Pro Tip: Bury the jar afterward to ground the energy.

Breaking Bad Habits

Old habits can feel like chains—but you’re the one holding the key. These spells help you break free.

The Smoke Cleanse for Habits

  • What You Need: Sage or palo santo, and a slip of paper.
  • Steps: Write the habit you want to release on the paper. Burn it using the sage or palo santo while saying:”Smoke and fire, cleanse and take. Release this habit, my path I make.”
  • Why It Works: Fire transforms, and the smoke carries your intention away.
  • Personal Note: I used this to finally ditch my nightly doom-scrolling habit. (Okay, mostly.)

The Frozen Habit Spell

  • What You Need: A small container of water and a piece of paper.
  • Steps: Write the habit on the paper, fold it, and submerge it in the water. Freeze it while saying:”As this water turns to ice, this habit halts, I pay no price.”
  • Pro Tip: Leave it in the freezer until you feel the habit has lost its grip.

Releasing Guilt and Regret

Sometimes the hardest person to forgive is yourself. These spells focus on letting go of what no longer serves you.

The Rose Petal Release

  • What You Need: Fresh rose petals and a flowing stream (or bowl of water).
  • Steps: Hold the petals and visualize your guilt or regret flowing into them. Place them in the water and watch them drift away. Say:”With these petals, I release my pain. I am whole, I’m free again.”
  • Why It Works: Water is cleansing and helps carry away emotional burdens.

The Forgiveness Candle Spell

  • What You Need: A pink candle, lavender oil, and a small mirror.
  • Steps: Anoint the candle with lavender oil and light it. Look into the mirror and say:”I forgive you, I release you. My heart is free, my spirit anew.”
  • Pro Tip: Repeat this as often as needed until it feels true.

Banishing Negative Energy

When your space feels heavy or you’re picking up on bad vibes, these spells can help you reset.

The Black Salt Barrier

  • What You Need: Black salt and a small bowl.
  • Steps: Sprinkle black salt around your home’s perimeter while saying:”No harm may enter, no ill may stay. This space is cleansed; all bad fades away.”
  • Why It Works: Black salt is known for its protective and cleansing properties.

The Mirror Banishing Spell

  • What You Need: A small mirror and a white candle.
  • Steps: Place the mirror facing outward near your front door. Light the candle and say:”Mirror bright, reflect away. All negativity, stay at bay.”
  • Pro Tip: Clean the mirror weekly to keep the energy fresh.

Cord-Cutting vs. Transformation Spells

Sometimes you need to release something entirely, and other times, it’s about changing its role in your life. Here’s how to decide:

  • Cord-Cutting: Use when you’re ready to fully let go (e.g., ending a relationship).
  • Transformation: Use when you want to shift the dynamic (e.g., turning anger into motivation).

The Transformation Candle Spell

  • What You Need: A white candle and a piece of paper.
  • Steps: Write what you want to transform (e.g., “self-doubt” into “confidence”) on the paper. Light the candle and say:”This flame transforms, this light renews. My path is clear, my strength imbues.”
  • Pro Tip: Keep the paper as a reminder of your new mindset.

Final Thoughts

Banishing and releasing spells aren’t about running from problems—they’re about freeing yourself from what’s holding you back. Whether you’re cutting cords, cleansing your space, or floating rose petals down a stream, remember that the magic starts with your intention. Let go of what no longer serves you, and watch how much lighter and brighter your life becomes. You’ve got this!

About the Author

Welcome to Crescent Moon Goddess. I'm Raven—a 30-something Instagrammer with a hippie soul and a gothic edge. Think of me as your friendly neighborhood witch who's all about keeping it real. I'm into tarot, crystals, astrology, and all that mystical stuff, but I also believe in practical magic—stuff you can actually use in your everyday life. Grab a cup of herbal tea (or coffee if that's your jam), and let's chat about the universe, self-improvement, and maybe even how to make a killer potion or two.

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